Nothing in life is ever truly clear..The truth is often lost between confusion and false hope.. Listen to the voice of reason first and foremost before making mistakes you can’t take back in the future..
It was that one summer.. When she whispered the words that would stay etched in my heart for a lifetime..Her sweet gentle voice..Like a soft melody to my broken soul..Every breath.. A wish for the moment to never end..Time itself..Had lost it’s meaning..In the moment she said.. Stay with me..
It’s a funny thing, the way relationships happen in a single lifetime isn’t it? There are some relationships that don’t work out. But you can salvage the friendship and they turn out the best thing you ever had. Yet, hard as you try there are those that you simply don’t recover from no matter how hard you try. Makes one wonder how many people we leave in the past who aren’t with us now doesn’t it?
Every so often in our life, We are reminded that not all roads are paved evenly. Sometimes the paths are difficult to travel because they are unknown to us, they take us to places we’ve never been. We stumble and often fall, but we still stand up and keep going thanks to the ones that have not given up on us. Our friends and loved ones that show us the way out, moments like these are the ones that truly help us move on. Memories like these, I treasure and hold close. Thank you, everyone for guiding my way out.
Sometimes, When we feel that we’ve found the one person to share our life with. There’s this feeling that we need to give everything, So that there are no doubts and no questions, we do this in the hopes that not only will it be reciprocated but also so that the relationship might be stronger.
It all sounds like a great idea, until some of us realize that not only have those feelings not been returned. But the one we shared everything with, has decided that we have nothing left to offer and has left us at the curb.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, relationships are built on discovering each other over time. It’s not about just finding similarities but also finding the differences and working through them. It’s not something that can be rushed, after all. Love is patient, is it not?
Sometimes.. When relationships are lost and feelings begin to fade.. We have to remind ourselves.. It’s not how many times we let go.. What matters is why keep trying..
Sometimes..love can feel like a delicate flower.. It you hold too tight..the leaves get crushed and it’s natural beauty is destroyed.. But if you hold it gently..the colors of its heart will reveal themselves to you..love..Is not about holding on to everything all at once..It is about watching something beautiful flourish into something so much more..
Love is but a single word..without definition..without thoughts on it’s own..until two hearts who beat as one for so long despite the distance..come together from different pasts..yet one certain future..the word is then redefined as eternal..
It’s the point that we eventually arrive at, the decision to let someone go. When we feel their wish to keep drifting from us, but like an anchor to a boat. There’s often something that keeps us from going very far, something that we still long for that’s beyond friendship and beyond love that keeps us holding on. When you find someone that makes you feel this way though, cherish every moment. you will never feel quite the same again, if you don’t.
The hardest part of getting over a relationship, isn’t forgetting everything that had happened. That happens all on it’s own, the difficult part. Is, watching the one who used to love you give everything away to someone else right before your eyes. It’s amazing, how people are so good at switching off their feelings selectively. I wish i could do the same, then maybe i could stop wasting time on people like that wouldn’t i?
Wow, what a week! where to start?? another emotional roller coaster? yes it was! sorting out some things with someone that was once close to me hasn’t been the easiest, it’s always hard when you have given so much only to end up rock bottom at the end of it all. But, thanks to really sweet and supportive friends I’ve gotten through the worst of it! i love how you have all been so supportive in reading my posts and cheering me on thank you so much!
I’m so grateful that i gotten through this week on a positive note, it keeps my spirits up and lasts me through the nights until i am with my sweet angel. She gives me strength that also heals me, i’m so blessed to be the a father to such a beautiful child can’t wait to see her in the morning and share stories about her week so i’ll be posting a little less to spend more time with her, but i will post more again Sunday evening! have a great weekend everyone
Don’t blame people for the relationships that haven’t worked out for you..they were being exactly how they have always been all their lives..you can’t blame them for being themselves..don’t blame yourself either because everyone finds themselves in the wrong relationship sooner or later..instead try to look inside yourself and you will understand that you need to make better choices..that starts when you raise your own standards before you can find someone that really is meant to receive all of your love..
There are many things i’m willing to sacrifice to make the time to spend with my girlfriend, i would give up everything from my personal time and do all i can to make her feel happy around me. But, i would never sacrifice my time that i have with my daughter nor would i sacrifice my closest friends in the pursuit of a relationship even if it’s the only relationship i ever want to be in. Friends and family are the single most important parts of our lives that we can always depend on, someone who truly loves you will accept this and won’t change a thing. Relationships are supposed to be unconditional after all, anything aside of that just isn’t a relationship anymore.
There’s no point in holding on to what’s truly lost sometimes, it’s like grasping at air. You know it’s there, but no matter how hard you try it can’t be held. After a while, you give up and just accept it as it is. The past, that is where it belongs now.
Ever felt like you’re always chasing after someone else’s dream? sometimes we do that, when we are so much in love with someone. We help them achieve their goals and we put ours on hold, when you feel so strongly about someone nothing else matters. Then after they have achieved their goals you are happy for them but what of your own? what will you do? this is when you have to ask yourself if you have decided to pursue your own dreams or will you be left behind? don’t ever forget to chase after your own goals too, life is too short to waste it just sitting and wondering.
Yesterday I wrote a blog about how I wish I knew the signs of when people have decided, that I’m not worth spending the time over and when I no longer matter.
I have been replaced so many times in my life but each time it has hurt me worse, so believe me when I say i know how blind I was in the past few months. Just comes to show, that some people have no thoughts for others so long as they are chasing their own ambitions. These are people who would rather leave you to hang because they are too busy reaping the benefits no matter how much you’d like to be part of their lives, so instead spend more effort on the people who do see that you have so much more to offer had they not been in such a hurry to leave you like a shirt on a clothesline.
We sacrifice friendship for the chance to try a relationship. Then in a relationship we try to keep it going so much that we begin sacrificing our own goals to help them meet theirs, it’s more about giving than it is taking because you love them. But, when they decided that you aren’t part of their life anymore. I wonder, was it all really worth it when there’s nothing left to salvage?
I don’t think i’m really the only one to say this, but sometimes the obvious things we see people do to us, are the hardest to accept. It’s as if our heart is forcing us into some sort of denial, but what’s the point when the truth is just that? may as well just face it head on and take the blunt edge than the sharper edge of a lie.
When you share something that can’t be described, only felt and you have no explanation as to why. Then you know your heart is in the right place, there’s no feeling like it.
When someone tells you they want to leave, don’t push them to stay. They made up their minds the moment they said those words, let them go not because you are bitter but because you want to give them a chance to see what life would be without you. If you really mattered, then they would of never wanted to leave in the first place.
It only takes one hopeful heart to find someone who loves you..then it takes a loving heart to keep the love going..a faithful heart to give all the best..a strong heart to go through the worst together..when it’s not meant to be though..a broken heart..to realize how easily it can all fall apart..give a relationship your everything..before wish you knew how easily you can lose it all..
Her hair waved gently like a melody over her shoulders in the breeze of the winter air, as she walked forward down the blizzard. Her beautiful eyes looking ahead with the innocence of an angel’s love, brightly and gently looking around as she held an umbrella with both her gloved hands. The cumbersome umbrella almost covering the entire frame of her body, yet she still walked with only grace. As she took her next few steps she saw through the storming blizzard a figure approaching, gently she moved aside to allow this figure to pass by. She slowed her footsteps and raised the umbrella just enough to see what’s ahead, as the figure passed by they glanced at each other. All she saw was a man, he had one hand in his pocket and the other on his hand. She took a few steps forward and turned around and stood still, by then he was already over the hill and already vanished into the blizzard. She remembered why she recognized those eyes, they had something special between them at one time but she had decided to forget him. He decided too, that since she had forgotten him then he has no reason to turn around, she turned around continuing to walk on the snow covered streets forward. It was the direction they parted on and so it is the direction they will continue down, some decisions it seems once made can’t be turned back around. Even as much as he did remember her and as much as he still loved her, he knew he should keep going..
Earlier today i went out for a walk to get some fresh air and i could hear two people in the distance debating over something, it was on my general direction so i walked past and overheard a lady tell another about how they should start to set standards middle of a relationship with their boyfriends. They were talking a mile a second so before i even walked half way past them i heard something along the lines of control. At this point i was roughly 5 feet away from them, yeah they were pretty loud.
But, still. Setting standards in the middle of a relationship? I’m sorry but that’s like saying that someone’s not good enough for you after you’ve accepted them and so they have to change for you, well. I’m sorry but i don’t change for anyone. This is how i am and this is how someone will have to accept me from the beginning, if they can’t then i’m moving on. I don’t have time for those kinds of people, just saying.
thank you so much! 
