I had a thought as I passed by a construction site earlier. When the tradesmen want to make pillars, they install rebars followed by forms. Or, more commonly known? Molds for creating the cylindrical shape. Then, they pour cement into it. Wait for it to cure, until they finally remove the mold and you get the product you want.
Relationships, They are similar to this. You envision how you want your love to look like. Plan it, set it and watch it all come together. There’s bound to be cracks along the way, things you won’t agree on and things that will remain broken. But if you work at it? It will hold and you will be sure to see final work of art that you can share with the world.